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Paperwork-only $780Elopement $1,800Wedding $2,200

Registry vs Melbourne Marriage Office

If you are comparing the Victorian Marriage Registry with the Melbourne Marriage Office, the big difference is simple:

  • the registry is a government service
  • Melbourne Marriage Office is a private company operated by authorised civil marriage celebrant Josh Withers

Both options can result in a valid legal marriage. The better choice depends on whether you want a government booking or a private service with more hands-on help.

What we are

The Melbourne Marriage Office is:

We are not Births, Deaths and Marriages Victoria, the Victorian Marriage Registry, a court, or a courthouse.

Quick comparison

TopicVictorian Marriage RegistryMelbourne Marriage Office
ProviderGovernment servicePrivate company operated by Josh Withers
Booking styleRegistry booking systemDirect private booking
Main focusGovernment registry ceremoniesSimple paperwork-only marriages
Help with the processMore self-managedMore hands-on and plain-English help
Witness helpYou usually arrange your ownWitness help available
Location styleRegistry venueMelbourne CBD or another simple agreed place
PriceCheck the BDM site for current pricing$780 fixed; see pricing

When the registry may suit you

The registry may suit you if you:

  • want the government option
  • are comfortable managing the process yourself
  • prefer the registry venue and structure

You can see the current Victorian Marriage Registry details on the BDM Victoria website.

When we may suit you

We may suit you if you:

  • want a private celebrant, not the government
  • want help understanding the paperwork
  • want a simple legal marriage without a full wedding
  • want witness help if needed
  • want to choose your own location, from a garden to a restaurant
  • want a clearer, more personal process

Important point about price

If your only goal is to find the lowest advertised government option, compare our pricing with the current BDM pricing and decide what matters most to you.

Our service is about being private, straightforward, and helpful. If you already know this is the right fit, use the booking form; you do not need to send an enquiry first.

No matter which option you choose, the law is the same. You still need:

  • a NOIM received at least one month before the marriage unless a shortening of time is approved
  • proof of date and place of birth
  • photo ID
  • two witnesses aged 18 or over
  • the legal words and signatures on the day

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Get married with us

Three fixed-price ways to get married in Melbourne

Every package is a legal marriage conducted by authorised celebrant Josh Withers.

Not sure which fits? Compare all three side by side or ask a quick question.

Ready to get married in Melbourne?

Book the $780 paperwork-only marriage online now, or send your date for the $1,800 elopement ceremony or $2,200 wedding ceremony. Need to prepare your NOIM first? Start with NOIM Easy.